When I first heard the term "Lair group" I thought of something sinister - maybe a bunch of dorky guys meeting up at one of their Mom's houses, playing Dungeons and Dragons. Other lair groups may be like that, but really we're not.
The term "Lair" was made up years ago, and now it's just become a common term; I can't really think of a good description, but I can tell you what we do.
What Wellington lair is, is really a social group. We'll meet up down town in groups of two or three, then just go socialise, and bring girls into our interactions. If you're female, and want to find out what we're about, that's cool. Join up and find out, and come out with us. We go out to have fun, and end up creating a great vibe and picking up in the process. It's all really chill, all the guys in the forum (as far as I know) are all real helpful, awesome people.
BUT the difference between going out with your regular friends, and coming out with a lair member is: you WILL meet tons of new people if you come out with us.